I don't think she is on a high horse. I think she just wants her marriage and family fixed. I think she is trying to fix herself. But I think her H has had these issues for years from what I have been reading and her A's were a direct result of it. I'm not justifying the A's, I just think she reacted to what he was doing for years.

I don't blame my wife for seeing another guy. I think she was reacting to me handling things poorly. Does it hurt, yes, very much so. But my marriage is more important to keep going than to dwell on something in the past that could further tear us apart. I wish my W would see it the same way. Right now, she doesn't.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...