The unfaithful wife...that's me..

[alexjadams]

Mellenmack

And you will never see those rings again, lol
You think he's thinking clearly right now? Why not you see everything just fine right?
How did you see things when you were having you're a's? now that you see everything clear he should be on board or ship out, go ahead and threaten him then after that get you D attorney, because that's where you'll be

When you were the WAW having your affairs, he may have not been aware but in his heart he knew something was different, when you confirmed the A's he went back thought the time line in his mind and reprocessed it, now because you see the light he should just drop everything & just trust you right? That's funny lol

When you were having your fun, would you have responded to the same threats or ultimatum? Nope you would have gone right to the pawn shop with those rings huh? Nope you're such a better person then he is right?

Mel,

Get off your high horse! & go & get your big girl panties!! when you are a WAS you walked away, then you hook back up with him or w/ someone new, guess what you will be LBS that's how this works it all cycles the point to all this is let your H do what he is going to do, & take this time to work on you, he's going to come back it's just how long do you want to wait, 6 months, 10 years? There is a woman story on these boards that was LBS & her H just left her she was destroyed, and eventually move on & remarried guess who reappeared to apologize about what he have done it took 10 years for that couple, but it always happens

Why because we grow, become wiser and learn that life cycles (sometimes your up & sometimes your down) just hang on because your ups will come & so will the lows you just have to stay the course

You have been disconnected from your marriage for how long? At least 7 years, wow & now that you have had your 7 year hiatus he gets 3 months & 3 "extra" months to deal w/ your affairs & that should be enough time, you had 7 years vs. his 6 months?? That's fair?

For him to come through this it will take him at least 4 years I think thatss the least you could do since he spent 7 with a wife who wasn't really there

And BTW he's nor the only drama queen!!