I did a little spiritual direction-type thing this evening with a sister who is a chaplain I've worked with. She's on the chaplaincy staff of the system that H used to work with, and I was aware she would know of him--but many people in the field know him. And she was suggested to me, I didn't choose to talk with her because of H. She told me that she began to see a lot of changes in H in the months before he left that hospital, and was sad to see him apparently spinning out of control. Apparently a lot going on with him for awhile.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012