ditto to the above. Why would it matter if stbx knows or not? he's been with an op for so long and has been gone from the M mentally long ago that it is doubtful he/she would think much of it. I'd be more scared of rebound Rs than anything else :\
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
