sorry Indigo)))) it is mind blowing to see what a mess they've made of their lives and how messed up their priorities are. It will never make any sense, what they are doing, how they dont' realize how they could be affecting their kids, they can only see 2 weeks into the future. My stbdx doesn't even provide too small clothes, since he pays me CS he says all the kids needs should come from that, and at this point, with all the debt he's acrued adn with new gf no way he'll buy a sock for them.
I know it sucks, but he's the one loosing out hon, kids grow up so fast and your kids by now have realized who the responsible parent is.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.