The unfaithful wife...that's me..

[K4D]

I think its working. Now sit back, keep dark, and see what he does. Don't continue to argue and don't respond back to any arguements he tries to make against you. Just stay dark. If he communicates about your daughter, answer and keep it short.

The more dark you stay now, the more likely he is going to keep thinking and possibly rethink his situation now that you have said what you have said. If you let him draw you into an arguement now, you won't make the progress you are wanting to make. Don't defend yourself now and just plain don't respond to any accusations. He might just come around when he realizes he can't pull you into his control anymore. I'm quite sure its going to dawn on him that he has lost control of the situation and the only way he can get things back with you is if he shapes up.

It will be tempting to respond. DON'T. You are letting him have control of the situation if you do. Keep the strength up. You are doing good. Remember, your ultimate goal is to win him back and that is noble. But also remember, he has to change in order to make this work. And by that I mean, drinking is gone, porn is gone and OW is gone. Just play it cool now. Keep in mind, you are doing this for you and your daughter. He has the potential to be a good husband and father, he just needs to find it in himself and you are providing the path for him.

Praying for the best,

Kevin