Awesome Mel...I know you're feeling bad, but I can see you taking control of your life back. And that's the only way things are going to get better...either with him or without him. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself.
Quote:
And we can't be married to other people and still communicate the way we do. So I told him "Only to discuss the kids." And he says "Now you're being hateful and things are getting weird." I wanted to scream!!! You want to be best buds, but you don't want to have a marriage?? Let's talk about weird!!
And that's right...not giving in to his childishness is not being hateful. I find it interesting that he reacted this way. He is upset about losing his control over you. Hopefully this will wake him up. If it doesn't, well, at least he doesn't have control over you.
