Originally Posted By: MsMelancoly
Do you think you are at the friendship stage?



I think we are at hte friendship stage.

We correspond about once a week via e-mail and she almost always asks when we can catch up and get together.....and we do, normally go out for dinner. Then the next time we e-mail, she's asking when we can get together again. This has been going on for quite some time now.

I am still GALing hard-core, although I have a lot of house projects backing up which I need to put to the top of the priority list. Spending a lot more time with friends then I used to and now have a pretty active social life. I sometimes wonder how I can fit a wife into my life with my limited available time (pretty cool huh).

I am starting to notice I'm getting a lot more female attention these days...but I'm not the least bit interested. At this point, I think I'm pretty much fully detached from W, and I think that's why we seem to be starting to connect again. There dosn't seem to be any hurt or pain between us anymore, no talk of D or anything negitive. If it does come up....I'm perfectly fine with it. See.....almost fully detached.


H - 39
W - 38
M - 10 years, Dated 1
LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008
Moved out - 5/18/08
no kids - 2 cats