Well today was quite the day. My 4 year old came home from ex's with play tatoos all over her arms put on by OW---- all of skulls and crossbones.
I blew a gasket.
It was so inappropriate.
I will be having a talk with ex. ---
They are back to pushing buttons.
Does this ever end.
My son also received a birthday gift from OW's parents -- WTF They live in Seattle and have never met him
I went to the gym and ran about 5 miles. I am planning to get the body of a goddess. I will be showing this body off to ex this summer. He will have to look and not touch
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Geesh, gifts from her parents who live far away and skulls, etc. on your child put on by OW--I would have a fit as well.
Next time, go over there and spray the Holy Water or Oil around and say prayers!
Honestly, how ridiculous is that?
Ya'll can come out my way as it is close to 80 degrees!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Trusting - I cant imagine how livid you were!! My gut got tied up just thinking of ow touching my kids... We do have our mommy claws.. and they are a good thing!!
Sorry about the pain of the "invasion". That is how I see it...it stinks and is hard and i am sorry!!
Hey another GREAT new book... it is "My single mom life" by Angela Thomas. Not preachy, not hard reading (i checked it out from the library on Friday and am almost done) just good reading....give it a shot.
I am thinking...hot divorced woman cruise.... hmmmm any takers?? (I so wish I could do this!!)
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Trusting, I'm so sorry that they are back to the button pushing. It's like they can't allow you to have a moment's peace. I, too, would have been livid had my little girl come home with play tatoos all over her arms.
As for the gift from the ow's parents...what the heck is that all about? Is she that desperate to hold on your xh that she's having her family pulled in for extra support and button pushing? If I had been her parents, I would have not sent that package. They are just as crazy as she is.
I think I would raise the issue of what transpired during this visit w/your xh when he comes to pick them up again. I wouldn't do it just yet. They are going to be surprised if you don't say anything right now. The right time will present itself to you.
It's never ending what they come up with to drive us nuts.
Please try to enjoy your week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I just keep praying that God will put a hedge of thorns around my little ones to keep them free from harm.
Snod, Thanks so much for visiting. I am going to do as you say. I will not bring this up for a while. I know that both of them are expecting me to fuss.
What happened is another example how evil enters the life of a ML'er. Honestly, skulls and crossbones on a little girl. It is absurd
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Is this ow into black magic or the deep dark side of life? Skulls and crossbones for a child? That's just sick. I'd like to know where your xh was when this was all taking place.
I would definitely raise the issue, in a very calm voice, when he picks them up for the next visit. It's too bad you didn't take photos so that you could point out just had awful they looked.
Let's hope that next time, she won't come home w/that mess.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Here in UK it is currently fashionable for teenage boys to wear rosary beads with crucifixes at the end. My S16 came with me to visit my parents two weeks ago and was wearing one of these awful adornments (don't get me wrong in the right setting and for the right reason etc). I paid little attention to it b/c I knew his best friend already had one and supposed he just wanted to feel part of the group. Then my SIL commented on it and I heard him tell her that OW had given it to him. I was furious but said nothing. My mum overheard half the conversation and asked him to repeat what he had said which he did but omitted the fact that it was a gift from OW. I just said 'that is not what you just said' and left it at that. It wasn't just that OW had the audacity to give him a gift it was also the fact that he wore it in my company knowing how hurt I would be.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Trusting - i CAN say this with CERTAINTY!! GOD WILL protect your children!! IT IS A PROMISE! You are RIGHT to stand on that. I know that I know that I know..HE WILL!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
She is lost like my ex. She is still searching for what she wants to be and what she wants to believe.
She does alot of experimenting, from christianity to psychics to chanting.
All I know is that she won't experiment on my daughter.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
and they are a good thing!!