I hope you noticed that WDID (who was a WAW) agreed with me (an AWAW), so maybe there is something to the way we females think? Maybe that is what you need to think about more than "who" you are right now. I do appreciate how considerate you are......believe me, I do. But, as I told you before, my H was/is also, but that did not change what "I" was doing. Do you see my point? Sometimes, we have to change some things about "us" in order to get our "spouse" to change toward us. Isn't that what DB is all about?

Okay, no more hashing it out. It is up to you. Just wish all the best for you. I always have.

Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!