True, and some of that thinking is colored by my mother. She is a very angry, unforgiving, vengeful person. No matter what I said about my wanting to get my kids prepared and as comfortable as possible in Dan's house given the circumstances, she just kept saying
*You always fix everything for Dan *When is he going to feel the consequences of his actions *When will he have to figure anything our for himself instead of you doing it for him
She would like me to take out a full page ad in the paper detailing all of his indiscretions, then throw all of his belongings in the front yard. And fight him for 100% custody of the kids to punish him. She will NEVER understand me. I told her it is too sad that I cannot talk to her about my life but I realized I cannot and it won't happen again...
