I'll throw something else out for everyone's fun. If I stop doing the little things for her and detach more than I have already, I can see my W thinking in her own mind, "see, I'm busting my butt trying to make this work and all I get is H4U withdrawing from me more. F him, I don't need him. This is the exact reason I had the A in the first place. He just doesn't understand me". Kind of along the lines WDID has been telling me she thinks is going on in W's head.
I don't think this would happen.
Because people want what they perceive they can't have, and tend to take for granted the things that we perceive that we do.
