WTF......How hard is it to figure out what you want and just say it? My H frustrates me to no end. He is the one that told me to plan for a D, but then acts like we will remain "buddies" afterward. I have reminded him more than once that its not likely that this will be the reality and he actually TRIES to make me feel bad. He is freakin' delusional at best.... He makes it so much harder than it needs to be, on everyone. Its just ridiculous.
WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
[quote=Virtually_HandsomeThis is a surprise? [/quote]
Not really, just frustrating. Makes me wonder if it rains much on his planet is all.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
They are all crazy while in this fantasy world. On the night after I found out that he filed, my now ex actually wanted me to go out to dinner with him as if everything was fine. Needless to say it wasn't fine and I didn't go.
To make things crazier, his parents were actually mad at me that I didn't want to keep the facade in place and be the happy family last Easter.
Hugs Corey.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
hey sis, checking on you. made it thru last nite with H and mil and not me visiting the S. but i made it and guess what?? NEVER will i be left behind, its me or them. screw it.
sweetie our bros 2 can have eachother, as for you and me and our kids we are gonna live, breathe and party! love you
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Thanks for stopping by Corey! Yep, I can't believe this past week. I couldn't make this up if I tried. It would be funny if it wasn't driving me crazy(not my niece or the break-in attempt). I am hoping after I get through Saturday morning I will have a better idea of where I am at and will gain a bit of sanity back.
How are you? Any new stuff going on with you? How is school? I miss you my snarky friend.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey all. Haven't been posting much. Lurking a little. I have been trying to keep myself busy.
Not much going on here. Taking DS to LA tomorrow to see his gastrointerologist. Its just a check up thing, but it'll be nice to get away for awhile, even if its for a Drs appt. I'm going to let DD play hooky and go with us and we'll stop and get something to eat somewhere fun. Not earthshattering, but a break from the norm.
MIL is taking all of the grandkids to the beach the weekend of Feb. 7-9. So I will have to find something fun to do with myself. H actually has invited me to a movie while they are gone, but we'll see.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
