Before anyone has a fit that I am advocating contact on the DA thread, I am just responding to WIT's request and she has no other thread at the moment. Besides, one can detach and have contact, the two are not mutually exclusive, nor should they be. Healthy couples are adequately detached from one another.
V.
LOL V....you made me smile, good on ya!
There are no fits on here, we are all just bumbling along helping each other. I agree with total DARK and the LRT (and I have'nt received the books yet, they are in the post).
The purpose of this thread is twofold.
1. to support and check on each other during the 'dark' period 2. to discuss what works for each sitch and adapt accordingly.
From my position, I have started a period of 12 days of NC. So far I have had 1 call from W last Friday. If I don't get any more by this friday, I plan to call her and 'catch up' on what's happened in her life over the last week. Then maybe drop out of touch for a few days again.
We have rules in here, but they are only what constitutes a full period of NC. We are free to pick and choose what works to suit our own positions.
Thanks for popping in and giving us your POV. The more the merrier
