We need to put blame on our WS more so than the OP. But of course we have our days when we have those evil thoughts about the OW which is natural. My D28 summed it up for me. We were talking about if when D goes through if H would marry OW. D28 said you could put OW in a white dress but she would still be a pig. Out of the mouths of our kids. I actually LOL on that one.
Also it does upset me that the OW's H cheated on her and she did the same with your H. I would NEVER put anyone through this pain. And it is pain and sorrow.
I am taking one day at a time and praying on a daily basis. It is out of my hands.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
