It is good advice. I am doing LRT and there is no contact from her except holidays and when she has car problems. I was intiating some contact for car insurance, but mostly to tlk. It absolutely destroyed my efforts at detaching. If WITS WAS is with OP, then meeting with them or talking nice with them sneds a message to them that they are agreeing with there decision, they are enabling that and offering or supporting the justification for leaving in the first place. LRT works but it takes time. during that time you will need to work on detaching, GAL and doing some self evaluation. It could take weeks of LRT before contact is made. If they never contact oyu, then detaching is easy because its over.
