Thank you. I thopught I was detaching months ago, uh-uh....Alot of what you are doing here, I have been doing but my detaching is getting better. I no longer think about what W is doing, where she is goijng , who she is with, its none of my damn business. I go out and leave it vague with my D17. When mom asks where I am she say sout, she asks out where, she says I don't know, when she asks with who, D17 throws up her arms and says call him yourself if your so concerned. Sweet. I am very dark to her, and at this point, content to do so. The whole being dark, nc and the whole deal logically doesn't make sense to get them tocome back, but then again they didn't leave with a whole lot of logic either. Let them miss what they had, let them wonder what we are doing and what we are thinking. It will take time, but they will do that. everyone hates to hear it. I wish my deal was done, but it ain't so onward and upward.
