It's just hard to reconcile showing the WAS the guiding path home by showing them what they're missing and not showing them you're ok with the situation the way it is, ya know?
How do you do one while still doing the other?
She's already seen Exhibits A, B, C, thru and including X and Z, thrice over.
She already knows the kind of man you are, and she already knows how you feel about her. You've LIVED it for over a year in front of her, with -- I might add -- a grade of "A", buddy.
You've done the hard work. I think it's time to call the question.
