Advice is easier to give than take I guess. I struggle with the same thing. My wife is now the drinker since I quit and she is against any form or religion or advice that preaches keeping your marriage and family together. Of course alot of this is because of her female best friend that is as stubborn and dim witted as a mule. My W has even acknowledged this over the years, but has now taken on everything she says. Its like they pull their beliefs out of the air and thats the way it is. And they stick by it. I'm up against double and triple forces, not just my W. Everything I do or say, my W's best friend comes back with something against me to my W. I can't win.

Anyways, this isn't my blog. But yes, perhaps good advice for down the road.

I have to go see my W's attorney with her in 2 hours. Would you believe its the same attorney my W's best friend used? It is.

Unreal. I'm very depressed.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...