Oh my, thanks for bringing some humor to this fiasco! How much are cheese doodles vs horse grain? Maybe there is some savings there I haven't thought of! I figured that grain on the high side to favor H but I'll check into cheese doodles. See how much we've saved by H refusing counseling and figuring out all on his own that I am the source of all problems?
I am going to the bank today to make the payment on H's line of credit. I know he won't do it, the banker always calls after it is due to tell H to pay it before it goes into default. Last time H only paid half of what was due and told me it was all taken care of. Right or wrong as far as the R or M and H making more accusations of how I drug him down, I will pay it because it is what is right for ME and the credit.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
