Maybe I should be in piecing part 5?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Ladies. So just let me see if I'm hearing you guys correctly.

Have a talk where I tell her I'm not the backup plan, I can see how in her mind she might be trying, but I'm not getting what I need from her and if things haven't drastically improved in X time, I can't do this any longer?

If that's the case, then we're on the same page. Like I mentioned before, I am going to wait until after she's through this rough patch at work because I just don't think it's fair to do that to her while she's so involved with work stuff.

So of course, right before I leave for lunch, W IM's me and says "so do you want to go out to dinner tonight? I took stuff out for Taco's, doesn't matter to me". I guess that's her way of saying Happy Birthday. Kind of reminds me of last year on this day. She said "do you want to go out to dinner?" So we did. During the meal I said "thank you, it really means a lot to me" and she replied "I only did it for S16". Nice huh?