Hey native, Very nice to hear you made some positive connections. Pinpointing problem issues, being correct at finding what they are and discussing them with your W is a huge step forward - I think. It totally shows that you care about her & her needs. She probably needed more reasurances of love than you had thought. I'm sure that is very important in showing her it's not all about sex & wanting her - but wanting ALL of her. It also shows that you are willing to give up some control. This must be difficult for you as well. All I can say, is I see a lot of strength & honor from you. Oh & don't forget patience ..... well done!!! Keep doing what works!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)