Oh my God!!! DD how are you holding up brother? That is insane! I can't believe she did that, but you have been saying she hasn't been rational at all. You gotta wonder , WTF, is this her rock bottom? You definitely need to start your stuff going. Get out of Dodge now!

i haven't hit that one yet and hopefully never do. she got her health insurance card. Financially she is ruined. they repo's her car and her dad was lending her $1000 to get it out, but a friend at the bank says she hasn't yet. She has a bench warrant for her arrest passing a bad check. the store is next door to where she works. So when she goes in to cash another check, they will be calling the local police and she will get slammed.

But enough of me, man you need to be stronger than ever right now. Can you find another place to live, temporarily withthe boys?