Hi Michelle!
I've never heard of white merlot either, but I like the red variety!

I have debts of £75k after 2 degrees and renovating properties and that doesnt include mortgages.. yep, bit scary but I never waste time thinking about it! Its only money, may as well get hung for a sheep as a lamb, as they say. I might be able to pay it off one day, lol.

So, things are going strong with R then??? If its not a nosey question (but I am intrigued...) how does he compare to your H? Or the way your H made you feel? Or is it still casual?

Ohh and I'll have a rum and coke please, hey Mrs M! Used to love those.
al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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