I was hoping someone could help me with this...

[MsMelancoly]

Hi volleydog, Nice to see you are still posting. It sounds like you had a nice time with W & your kids. (Well, except for the fighting guys in the movie). I wouldn't worry so much about "breaking DBrules" we all do it. It's more about finding what works & what doesn't to get positive results. And as many of us see, after making a positive connection with the WAS, they will pull back. You had a nice time & you both left with positive feelings - right???

Also, sounds like you have a great PMA & are putting no pressure on your W. Bravo!!!