That's just it. We all want to fix it. But it is the realization that we can't. It is not your job to fix your W. It is her job.
It is your job to fix you. I know the early stages of this are very hard, and very painful. I remember what it felt like. It was agonizing, and I wanted answers to questions that were impossible to answer.
Now, a year and a half later, I still love my H, but know this is a part of his growing. He needs to deal with this. And, he is beginning to. The good thing is women tend to deal with their emotional issues faster because generally we are more in touch with our emotions.
There are no guarantees. But, there are always possibilities. But this is her growing experience. It hurts you, but you have to do as much as you can to realize that you cannot fix her. She has to do that all by herself.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
