Ral,

Actually you have more control than you think.You have control over you and how you react, and your wife will react to how you act and react. In my case I believe if I had continued to pursue my wife through words and actions she would have finished the divorce many months ago.I know you feel helpless, but you're not.


m-54
w-44
children-4
bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023