H4U,

I agree, you have told her. Repeatedly. In WORDS.

However, your ACTIONS speak loud and clear to her otherwise -- they say "I'm just fine with things for now," and we humans are, after all, path-of-least-resistance creatures, aren't we. ;\)

Isn't that what we are taught here on DB? To judge our spouse by their actions, and not their words? Do YOUR actions towards her say "I'm OK with this" or "I'm NOT okay with this"????

Puppy