Any advice on how to deal with my W's best friend who is agging her on to D me? I feel like I see my W when she talks but I hear her best friend. How do I compete against multiple forces working against me?

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...