Makes me wonder why he wanted to get married if he is already going to walk after only 5 months of M. Doesn't sound like there is much you can do except what you are doing.

Keep praying and working on yourself. Sometimes these things are out of our control and we just have to leave it up to God. I feel the same way in my M with my W.

You could always contest the D to drag it out. Say you don't agree to the breakdown of stuff he wants. Tell him yall need mediation. This drags it out but may force him to have to communicate more with you. Just don't let on to your real reason of demanding mediation. Is there anything you know that he for sure wants as his? Challenge him on it but find a valid reason why you should get it. Not sure myself, just trying to think of something that might help drag it out and force more communication.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...