Thanks to everyone for their advice & support.

It is great to get perspective about my situation from y'all. It is difficult at first to get a strong sense of what is going on and how to respond to my H and his desire for a D. Everyone here has helped me out so much. I greatly appreciate your words & support.


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09