I went back and forth on this, this weekend. I really wanted to tell him. But, I know him. He won't want to know this.
If I told him he would be wonderful, I have no doubt. He would be supportive and he would help me. But, it would be a mind block for him in other ways.
JWM, we are finally going in the right direction. We are kissing and feeling good. It has taken a Lonnnnnng time to get here. I'm not telling him for him and for us.
If former OM calls again, I will have to tell him and we will have to do more. But I sure hope that doesn't happen because former OM will have more power in our relationship than I want him to have. H and I are done with the past and are moving forward.
