SD, I think that was ok to do, but if you think about it next time do it before you leave and let her wonder all night about what you are doing.
I am really struggling with mentally detaching these past few days. I don't fight myself to contact him, but I find myself thinking about what he is doing. With exh and OW both living so close by (each less than a mile)its very easy to become sort of stalkerish. Yuck. Not what I want to be doing, but its now a constant battle. Like yesterday, when the texts stopped again I assumed OW was back and I never heard from him again. Then I start thinking and thinking.
So I guess my challenge in this DA is not checking up on him anymore.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
