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Silvagod, JD and WIT; My D3 is/was almost too young (not yet 3) to understand about the call. She would nod but not talk, etc. Also I have my D3 3 overnights every week - so it's not like we do not have good contact. I would like to call to say goodnight on the long weekends without her though - It becomes too much time w/o contact.

So Sat. night I was at a work function - a Gala fundraiser for a client held at a Casino with overnight acccomodations... My W does not know anything about the event... So at 1 am I left her a message to attempt to spike her curiosity... "You are missing a fun time out on the town... I have decided not to go (to my)home tonight and will not be home until tomorrow afternoon. You are welcome to go to my house in the morning to play with the dogs" (her dogs see gave up when she moved out).

She called on Sun afternoon... "what was the message about ?"
me "I thought you might have wanted to visit and play with the dogs since I wasn't going to be there". WAW "I got that part and I really do miss them a lot... But i still do not know why the call at 1 am (meaning what were you doing out that late and not going home)?" I dismissed the question. WAW "Do you want to talk with your D3? " me "I would love to" I spoke with D3 telling her "how much I miss her and I love her very much." WAW can always overhear me talking with D3 as it is her cell phone and she is always nearby helping my D3 respond.

So was it a bad idea to leave that 1 am voicemail (letting her know that I am out having a lot of fun) and she can visit (her) dogs? Or was it good to peak WAW curiousity ? Thoughts ?