Do yourself a favor K and delete the draft copy of the email. No amount of reworking it will help tone it down. Start over.

Your H is entitled to set boundaries on what he is willing to discuss right now. That doesn't mean that it couldn't be addressed at a later time.

The question here K is not whether your M can be restored but if you have enough love left in your heart for your H as your H and not just as the father of your children. Can you see the possibility of a future with him?

I'm sorry this is tearing you apart again K, but the end result of the ripping in your soul will be the right decision for you.

Love and hugs to you K. Seriously, I'm rooting for your M but whatever you decide to do, I am behind you 100%!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!