True, I'm sorry to read that you weren't able to attend the Jazz Concert on Friday evening. How are you feeling these days? Did you get rid of the cold?
I'm glad your friend came over and spent some time w/you. You certainly couldn't do anything outside in that weather.
I'm glad your h is being "polite". Please do not let your guard down. I really do not trust him because this being polite and then upsetting has been a pattern of his for quite some time. It's a way of wearing you down so that you'll allow him to have whatever he wants just to get rid of the emotional upheaval he's creating for you. Maybe he's grown up a bit, but I still would keep my eye on him and his motives.
Take care and enjoy your week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.