Trusting, I'm so sorry that they are back to the button pushing. It's like they can't allow you to have a moment's peace. I, too, would have been livid had my little girl come home with play tatoos all over her arms.
As for the gift from the ow's parents...what the heck is that all about? Is she that desperate to hold on your xh that she's having her family pulled in for extra support and button pushing? If I had been her parents, I would have not sent that package. They are just as crazy as she is.
I think I would raise the issue of what transpired during this visit w/your xh when he comes to pick them up again. I wouldn't do it just yet. They are going to be surprised if you don't say anything right now. The right time will present itself to you.
It's never ending what they come up with to drive us nuts.
Please try to enjoy your week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.