I went over and left a post. I had also been very puzzled by him when I first posted to him earlier on that thread. The time line thing etc just didn't add up.
I think you are spot on in your posts - I have just tried to temper the message down a bit and see if he bites....but some people are beyond help......as you probably realise I have been feeling recently from some other posts I know you have read that I made!!!!
Some people get held in this limbo place and just don't seem able to move on....it's painful to watch.
I hope your H's neck turns out to not be something too bad. I know that whiplash just by itself can be very painful. Is he better laying down flat?
Take care
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength