Your h is spending more time at your place than at the "dark" closet. From your daughter's comment....he's revisiting the past right now. He's comparing what he had pre-crisis, what he had/has right now in crisis and what he should have post-crisis. They all go back and revisit everything one last time before determining whether to come home or stay in the cocoon of mlc.
Continue as you have been. Enjoy your week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
