It's not so much that I think that an OP would make it any easier PM. I think if my W was involved with OM I would be gutted. The only way I see it as easier is that it's possibly easier to understand. In my sitch, there's no OM. That means that the only reason my W wants to leave is because she doesn't want to be with me. If she was with someone else I could understand that she was being led by someone else. Right now though, it's only her that's making these decisions. That's what makes it hard to accept.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
