Thanks Tawnya and CIW. Yes, CIW, we had very strong foundations, we were best friends, in every sense. But I think he lost his way. That's the way I choose to look at this situation. You may think it's easier when there is a OP involved but I tell you it's not. OP is very very real and if they won't let go, you have an extremely long road ahead.

Hope, OW doesn't have kids. She is in the middle of her own D. Apparently her H fooled around on her! What woman would do that to another woman when her own H did that to her. I just don't understand that. She must be a real piece of work. And to think my H puts her on a pedestal! Ha! (Maybe they deserve each other after all.)


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'