Hey K.... I like that there is a contrast in approaches from the piecers, I cant say how I would behave as I hadnt gotton to this place, this forum feels pretty personal (not so specific as the DBing stuff we used to help each other with!). I understand that there is a fine line between detached and not caring. Perhaps if you feel loved and secure its easier to detach and not take things personally, but not so easy when someone has not taken steps to make you feel loved again and secure, after an A. Or maybe just more time needs to pass...?
