If I could make a decision with no consequences, I would divorce him.
Ditto, I think I came to a similar conclusion at the start of this year when we entered the new year with W not talking to me. I mean after all we had been through she was showing she hadn't changed, still showing her old patterns of behaviour. But I've put that to the back of my mind now cos those sorts of decisions have big consequencies on others, so we can't do it.
For now I have pulled back (kind of detachement)and I am heading in my direction, W is following very slowly.
K it's a big struggle and one whe have to go through and show we are the bigger person, I know you're already doing it, but we just have to keep doing it.
