PM, it's good to hear you're coping so well right now. I would definitely see your H thanking you so sincerely over the weekend as a goal achieved. He's noticing the things you are doing and appreciating them. You obviously have strong foundations with your H and that's something he'll start remembering when the spark goes out of his A.
Take care. You're doing great.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.