I read through your sitch. It must be hard for you having to juggle a new baby and an 'older' baby at the same time, if you know what I mean
Is there any way that you can turn your phone off and thereby not even SEE the texts he sends?. Maybe just for an hour a day to start with to give you some peace.
I know it's a hard thing to detach, but you CAN do it, even with your H pestering you. Don't respond, delete them as soon as they come in. Leave your phone alone and go do something else.
Keep working with us all in here, we'll all pull through you know!
