Itsy, There are a number of the x's that wake up and regret what they've done and who they have married, but many times, pride/ego stand in the way of admitting it to the one they left behind. However, they will share that regret w/their friends, etc. Many times, it's too late to reconcile as the lbs has moved on or too much damage has been done.
I honestly don't think the ow care one fig about them waking up and regretting what they've done. They feel that they've caught them in their nets and know that they may not have a snowball's change in heck of reconciling w/the former spouse. It's a gamble when they walk away...the lbs is the one that determines whether they reconcile or not.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
