I'll be watching this with interest...

I have been under the impression that the 4 stages of reconcilliation were

#1- Reduction of negative feelings (cleaning out the corners of the old R)
#2- Friendship
#3 - romance
#4- Intimacy/reconcilliation

I have not read enough of your sitch to know if #1 & 2 have been accomplished in your mind? In your wifes?

I wish the best tonight!
Let us know how it went.
Peace
Bridge

Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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