Hi, I think I need to join this club as much as anyone else. Detachment is hard but a necessary "evil" to survive relationships. My spouse is a walk away - he is overly sensitive and easily angered. He is an emotional roller coaster to the extent that we are now separated and I still feel the bumps. I have been working on DA for awhile now and it seems so darn easy when reading or listening to it but so very hard when he pushes my buttons. A minister once suggested that when anyone pushes our buttons, that we simply learn to unplug the circuit. I am with all and need a lot of support in this - he is a pro at pushing buttons. It is also tough because we work at the same place - sooooo we are separated at night and weekends. My weakness??? When I feel rested, upbeat, and positive about things in my life. Strength??? I'm a fast learner. Looking forward to talking and learning with everyone.
