This is an example where I am having a hard time detaching:

Today exh starts texting me his usual texts like he always does on the weekends. Sometimes I engage, sometimes I don't. Earlier I did. I posted about it on my thread. He was being random. Texts about baby, how it was a coincedence to run into eachother at the market today, how I looked good. I usually just give one word or very short answers.

Then all of a sudden they stopped. About 30 minutes later my daughter calls and tells me she is at her friends house that lives across the street from exh. She said OW is at exh's now. That is probably why the texts stop.

Just now I get a text from exh asking me to send him a pic or video of baby. OW must have left.

Its all a big game. He is still trying to juggle OW and I. He doesn't seem to want me to get very far away.

Anyway, this is how I am having such a hard time emotionally detaching. Its an up and down rollercoaster.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!