I felt like that too, but I think when the time comes you won't feel the need and you'll let go. It'll happen. I was looking at wedding photos a few weeks ago and you know I realised that we were so happy. BUT I was so happy because I could tell from the way he looked at me that he loved me 100%. There was no doubt, at present he still loves me but more like 50% or whatever figure, but there is no doubt that it is not 100%. I don't want that, I want my H to want me and no one else. This is what is helping me to let go and detach because until he can commit to me 100% then there is no point....and it may never happen, which is sad but life has a lot of good patches and I am looking out for those....that's the GAling.